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So, most of you know that @dadhoc unexpectedly lost his job right after Lex died last year – and in fact exactly because Lex died. They fired him because he took a day off from work when he’d been up all night at the emergency vet with his dog, finally having to make the decision to put him down.
@dadhoc’s gotten work again, but between being out of work, his new job being ethically better but currently paying him literally less than half what his old job did, and my disability limiting my work hours, plus the fact that what was supposed to be ‘pay your deductible and we’ll fix your house’ turned into ‘lol jk you’re 10K in debt now’ – things are getting – well.
Really tough. We’re not yet scarily falling behind, but things are becoming a little nerve-wracking. My last paycheck, after I paid for our health care, was $30. That’s not a typo. It’s not typical, but it’s not a typo.
Between my various social media sites, I put in enough time answering questions, acting as support, and writing up resources for it to be a second job for me. I do it because I love it, and because I love our community, but it’d also be awesome if my labor could turn into cash money.
If you appreciate what I do, please consider buying me a coffee, or if you don’t like Ko-fi, sending something my way on PayPal. My Patreon will be going live tomorrow, at which time you will also have the option of paying me money for stories about socialist space lesbians and separately a Jewish scholar in a fantasy world based on Mongolia and also about a demisexual middle-aged wizard, her partner, and their trans apprentice. I just have to decide which one I want to plow through first.
If every one of my followers could toss a dollar in the kitty, I’d have enough money to be sure we’d be tided over to when things should pick up for @dadhoc, and maybe even make some of the desperately-needed safety-related repairs to our house, which have been put off and put off.
Even better, if you’d like to hire me to write something for you, edit, proofread, speak or sensitivity read for you? I am for hire. I also have an Etsy shop, and if you don’t see something you like in my current stock, hit me up for something custom. Any of my pride kippot can be modified into beanies if you want a Pride item but are not Jewish.
Thanks - and please boost this either way. <3
So I hate to bring this up to the fore again, but here we are.
We are in scary territory right now. @dadhoc got a different job, finally, and we might be okay if we can make it to September, but the thing is, we gotta make it to September.
I haven’t talked about this a lot, but my job found an excuse to get rid of me, in a way that may or may not be legal because it may be a disability law violation but I don’t have the money to fight and they know that, and are now contesting my unemployment. If they rule against me, I’ll have to repay everything I’ve been paid since May 26th. (Yeah, they fired me right before my birthday.) Between that and the fact that dadhoc isn’t ramped up at his new job and is making just over minimum wage until he does? We’ve eaten through most of our savings paying bills and the mortgage for the last couple months.
(We do, for the moment, have medical assistance, so that much is covered. For now. Hooray Medicaid.)
My in-laws helped me to get a new sewing machine so that I can provide more awesome stuff at my Etsy shop, and I’ve branched out from Judaica to Pride items that aren’t Judaica, and also stuff like makeup bags and nerdy stuff. Pronoun patches? Yep, I got that. Custom work for your jacket? Got that, too.
So if you like what I do? Consider hiring me, consider buying something from my Etsy shop (I do custom work!), consider buying me a coffee or becoming a Patron or tossing some money in my PayPal tip jar.
Please, and thank you. I just gotta make it to September, and then hopefully dadhoc’s new job will pick up.
Please can we get this boosted, Tumblr fam? And if you could show a little love and help @vaspider and their family I’d deeply appreciate it. Vaspy has been there and helped so many of us.
I am broke but I would totally like to draw attention to the bit about the Etsy shop as apparently @vaspider does really neat things like sew-on badges with preferred pronouns on them and IDIC and also if you would like your jacket to tell everyone that you are the tank/bard/healer of the group up front.
I know I have a few people who would find that in particular nifty. So.
I already bought, AND received, a pronoun patch, in beautiful shiny Hufflepuff gold, saying “mer/mers pronouns” for @rivergst. Mer whole face lit up! I’m going to order they/them and gem/gems ones for the baby and me next ❤️
I everyone gives like 3-5 bucks a piece that adds up y'all, really
Honestly, it really does. And the people who have donated (including one person who I don’t know who gave an amount that literally made me sob with relief) have really helped. A lot.
We have one more month to get through, if all goes well, before things start to turn around at @dadhoc‘s new job. Things are happening, but it takes time for them to actually come through.
So check out my Etsy shop (20 percent off of orders over $15 before 7/31, y’all!) or hit up my PayPal or Kofi, or signal boost, please, if you like what I do, if I’ve helped you or someone you care about.
Thank you. We’re getting through.
Boosting this again. We got hit with lawyer fees to try to protect my unemployment, and we’re fighting to keep our noses above water. I keep telling myself: end of September, just gotta get to the end of September.
Please check the Etsy shop, there are great new items up, buy a coffee, donate on PayPal, whatever works for you!
We have current outstanding:
$290 back cellphone bill
$1300 mortgage for August
$1500 debt payments
$250 car payment.
We’ve covered everything to this point, but barely, with your help and your orders and your awesomeness.
End of September.
Thank you to everyone who’s bought or donated. Y'all got me to my doctor’s appointment today. Thank you.
Now I gotta get home and finish packing orders…
Boosting this post again. If you like what I do, please consider helping my family out. We can see the light at the end of the tunnel – I won my unemployment compensation fight against my old employer, which helps, but we’re still not out from underwater yet. If we can get to the end of September, things will start to turn around.
I’ve just added a whole new set of patches on NerdyKeppie – Pride animals! – and my patrons on Patreon just got a free add-on poem. Queer fiction for a dollar or two a month? Awesome Pride items? And you get to help me. How cool is that?
(It’s pretty cool.)
If none of that stuff is up your alley, well, consider buying me a ko-fi or tossing a little money in my PayPal. Every little bit helps. I need to be able to get back and forth to doctor’s appointments and to pay for meds. <3
Thanks, friends.
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