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boydsm:
abunchofgoodstuff:
boydsm:
• Using your safeword does not make you a bad sub.
• Not enjoying a certain act (i.e. tying up, pain play, etc) does not make you a bad sub.
• Not sharing the same kinks as your dom(s) does not make you a bad sub.
• Asserting your wants, needs and/or triggers does not make you a bad sub.
• Stopping a scene entirely and not wanting to continue does not make you a bad sub.
Bdsm is supposed to be fun. You can stop or alter things to suit your comfort. It’s ok to do this.
Any dom that tells you otherwise is a bad dom.
Same goes for Doms.
^^^^ a good addition to this post. I made it to be about subs because I, myself, am a dom and wrote this as a message to my followers (mostly subs). But yes subs can be toxic too.
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boydsm:
abunchofgoodstuff:
boydsm:
• Using your safeword does not make you a bad sub.
• Not enjoying a certain act (i.e. tying up, pain play, etc) does not make you a bad sub.
• Not sharing the same kinks as your dom(s) does not make you a bad sub.
• Asserting your wants, needs and/or triggers does not make you a bad sub.
• Stopping a scene entirely and not wanting to continue does not make you a bad sub.
Bdsm is supposed to be fun. You can stop or alter things to suit your comfort. It’s ok to do this.
Any dom that tells you otherwise is a bad dom.
Same goes for Doms.
^^^^ a good addition to this post. I made it to be about subs because I, myself, am a dom and wrote this as a message to my followers (mostly subs). But yes subs can be toxic too.
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