Feb. 16th, 2019

gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2BChY5w

Two Months After Tumblr 'Adult Content' Ban, I Miss The Fat Naked Bodies:

nudityandnerdery:

rapeculturerealities:

I don’t have to tell you that it’s hard to be a fat woman in this country, and increasingly in many other countries around the world. Over the years I’ve experienced a stark difference in the way I’m treated by loved ones and strangers alike, not to mention by myself. Confronting the hateful voice in my head—placed there by a profoundly fat-phobic society—has been one of the greatest challenges of my 20s.

My biggest support in this battle against self-hatred has been other fat women. If it wasn’t for Tumblr, I don’t know where I would have found such a strong community around loving and accepting the body you have, at any size. Part of learning that acceptance has been viewing fat, naked bodies.

Even before the “adult content” ban, I didn’t see much nudity on my Tumblr dashboard, pornographic or not. But most of what I saw was people sharing their naked bodies in a celebratory manner. Whether they were dim, blurry selfies or professional photo shoots, Tumblr users exposed me to naked trans bodies, naked bodies of color, naked non-binary bodies, and naked fat bodies. Sometimes all at once. All were wonderful, and all worked to support those marginalized people who were left out of magazines, ads, and even mainstream pornography.

“Look, these bodies exist too, and they’re beautiful,” said every naked nipple, no matter the gender of the person they were attached to. For me, the fat bodies were a wonderful comfort, and I hoped to some day gain the courage to display my own fat naked body, unashamed, to help other women like myself learn to love and accept themselves.

read more

There’s still plenty of straight up porn out there on Tumblr. The ban has only slowed that. But completely valid uses of the site are the ones that are actually being affected. It’s ridiculous.
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2IepTvm

whispwoods:

catrapurrs:

SHE HAS FUR ALL OVER…. WE REALLY ARE ALL FURRIES

Thought I should continue this saga because it is ICONIC

Bonus:
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2GsnStJ

onion-souls:

smuganimebitch:

smuganimebitch:

hey i hope you guys realize that an anime character saying they’re “forever seventeen” is a reference to Kikuko Inoue - a really famous idol and voice actress who regularly says she’s ‘forever seventeen’ as a joke despite being like, in her fifties. And not like… whatever people on this website seem to think it is.

and if you actually see her you instatly understand why she makes that joke

this woman is 54 years old

“I want you to meet my daughter, we’re about the same age.”
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2UWtBvc

this-is-not-jewish:

If you’ve spent any time discussing or reading about the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, I guarantee you’ve heard some variation of this statement:

OMG, Jews think any criticism of Israel is anti-Semitic! 

In the interests of this post, I’m going to assume that the people who express such sentiments are acting in good faith and really don’t mean to cause pain to or problems for Diaspora Jewry.  For those good-faith people, I present some guidelines for staying on the good side of that admittedly murky line, along with the reasoning why the actions I list are problematic.  (And bad-faith people, you can no longer plead ignorance if you engage in any of these no-nos.  Consider yourselves warned.)  In no particular order:

Don’t use the terms “bloodthirsty,” “lust for Palestinian blood,” or similar.  Historically, Jews have been massacred in the belief that we use the blood of non-Jews (particularly of children) in our religious rituals.  This belief still persists in large portions of the Arab world (largely because white Europeans deliberately spread the belief among Arabs) and even in parts of the Western world.  Murderous, inhumane, cruel, vicious–fine.  But blood…just don’t go there.  Depicting Israel/Israelis/Israeli leaders eating children is also a no-no, for the same reason.

Don’t use crucifixion imagery. Another huge, driving motivation behind anti-Semitism historically has been the belief that the Jews, rather than the Romans, crucified Jesus.  As in #1, this belief still persists.  There are plenty of other ways to depict suffering that don’t call back to ancient libels.

Don’t demand that Jews publicly repudiate the actions of settlers and extremists.  People who make this demand are assuming that Jews are terrible people or undeserving of being heard out unless they “prove” themselves acceptable by non-Jews’ standards.  (It’s not okay to demand Palestinians publicly repudiate the actions of Hamas in order to be accepted/trusted, either.)

Don’t say “the Jews” when you mean Israel.  I think this should be pretty clear.  The people in power in Israel are Jews, but not all Jews are Israelis (let alone Israeli leaders).

Don’t say “Zionists” when you mean Israel. Zionism is no more a dirty word than feminism.  It is simply the belief that the Jews should have a country in part of their ancestral homeland where they can take refuge from the anti-Semitism and persecution they face everywhere else.  It does not mean a belief that Jews have a right to grab land from others, a belief that Jews are superior to non-Jews, or any other such tripe, any more than feminism means hating men.  Unless you believe that Israel should entirely cease to exist, you are yourself Zionist.  Furthermore, using “Zionists” in place of “Israelis” is inaccurate and harmful.  The word “Zionists” includes Diasporan Jews as well (most of whom support a two-state solution and pretty much none of whom have any influence on Israel’s policies) and is used to justify anti-Semitic attacks outside Israel (i.e., they brought it on themselves by being Zionists).  And many of the Jews IN Israel who are most violent against Palestinians are actually anti-Zionist–they believe that the modern state of Israel is an offense against God because it isn’t governed by halakha (traditional Jewish religious law).  Be careful with the labels you use.

Don’t call Jews you agree with “the good Jews.”  Imposing your values on another group is not okay.  Tokenizing is not okay.  Appointing yourself the judge of what other groups can or should believe is not okay.

Don’t use your Jewish friends or Jews who agree with you as shields.  (AKA, “I can’t be anti-Semitic, I have Jewish friends!” or “Well, Jew X agrees with me, so you’re wrong.”)  Again, this behavior is tokenizing and essentially amounts to you as a non-Jew appointing yourself arbiter over what Jews can/should feel or believe.  You don’t get to do that.

Don’t claim that Jews are ethnically European.  Jews come in many colors–white is only one.  Besides, the fact that many of us have some genetic mixing with the peoples who tried to force us to assimilate (be they German, Indian, Ethiopian, Italian…) doesn’t change the fact that all our common ancestral roots go back to Israel.

Don’t claim that Jews “aren’t the TRUE/REAL Jews.“  Enough said.

Don’t claim that Jews have no real historical connection to Israel/the Temple Mount.  Archaeology and the historical record both establish that this is false.

Don’t accuse Diasporan Jews of dual loyalties or treason.  This is another charge that historically has been used to justify persecution and murder of Jews.  Having a connection to our ancestral homeland is natural.  Having a connection to our co-religionists who live there is natural.  It is no more treasonous for a Jew to consider the well-being of Israel when casting a vote than for a Muslim to consider the well-being of Islamic countries when voting.  (Tangent: fuck drone strikes.  End tangent.)

Don’t claim that the Jews control the media/banks/country that isn’t Israel.  Yet another historical anti-Semitic claim is that Jews as a group intend to control the world and try to achieve this aim through shadowy, sinister channels.  There are many prominent Jews in the media and in the banking industry, yes, but they aren’t engaged in any kind of organized conspiracy to take over those industries, they simply work in those industries.  The phrase "the Jews control” should never be heard in a debate/discussion of Israel.

Don’t depict the Magen David (Star of David) as an equivalent to the Nazi swastika.  The Magen David represents all Jews–not just Israelis, not just people who are violent against Palestinians, ALL JEWS.  When you do this, you are painting all Jews as violent, genocidal racists.  DON’T.

Don’t use the Holocaust/Nazism/Hitler as a rhetorical prop.  The Jews who were murdered didn’t set foot in what was then Palestine, let alone take part in Israeli politics or policies.  It is wrong and appropriative to try to use their deaths to score political points.  Genocide, racism, occupation, murder, extermination–go ahead and use those terms, but leave the Holocaust out of it.

In visual depictions (i.e., political cartoons and such), don’t depict Israel/Israelis as Jewish stereotypes.  Don’t show them in Chassidic, black-hat garb.  Don’t show them with exaggerated noses or frizzled red hair or payus (earlocks).  Don’t show them with horns or depict them as the Devil.  Don’t show them cackling over/hoarding money.  Don’t show them drinking blood or eating children (see #1).  Don’t show them raping non-Jewish women.  The Nazis didn’t invent the tropes they used in their propaganda–all of these have been anti-Semitic tropes going back centuries.  (The red hair trope, for instance, goes back to early depictions of Judas Iscariot as a redhead, and the horns trope stems from the belief that Jews are the Devil’s children, sent to destroy the world as best we can for our “father.”)

Don’t use the phrase “the chosen people” to deride or as proof of Jewish racism.  When Jews say we are the chosen people, we don’t mean that we are biologically superior to others or that God loves us more than other groups.  Judaism in fact teaches that everyone is capable of being a righteous, Godly person, that Jews have obligations to be ethical and decent to “the stranger in our midst,” and that non-Jews don’t get sent to some kind of damnation for believing in another faith.  When we say we’re the chosen people, we mean that, according to our faith, God gave us extra responsibilities and codes of behavior that other groups aren’t burdened with, in the form of the Torah.  That’s all it means.

Don’t claim that anti-Semitism is eradicated or negligible.  It isn’t.  In fact, according to international watchdog groups, it’s sharply on the rise.  (Which sadly isn’t surprising–anti-Semitism historically surges during economic downturns, thanks to the belief that Jews control the banks.)  This sort of statement is extremely dismissive and accuses us of lying about our own experiences.

Don’t say that since Palestinians are Semites, Jews/Israelis are anti-Semitic, too.  You do not get to redefine the oppressions of others, nor do you get to police how they refer to that oppression.  This also often ties into #8.  Don’t do it.  Anti-Semitism has exclusively meant anti-Jewish bigotry for a good century plus now.  Coin your own word for anti-Palestinian oppression, or just call it what it is: racism mixed with Islamophobia.

Don’t blow off Jews telling you that what you’re saying is anti-Semitic with some variant of the statement at the top of this post.  Not all anti-Israel speech is anti-Semitic (a lot of it is valid, much-deserved criticism), but some certainly is.  Actually give the accusation your consideration and hear the accuser out.  If they fail to convince you, that’s fine.  But at least hear them out (without talking over them) before you decide that.

I’m sure this isn’t a comprehensive list, but it covers all the hard-and-fast rules I can think of.  (I welcome input for improving it.)

But wait!  Why should I care about any of this?  I’m standing up for people who are suffering!

You should care because nonsense like the above makes Jews sympathetic to the Palestinian plight wary and afraid of joining your cause.  You should care because, unfortunately, the Israeli-Palestinian conflict has correlated to an uptick in anti-Semitic attacks around the world, attacks on Jews who have no say in Israeli politics, and this kind of behavior merely aggravates that, whether you intend it to or not. 

The Israeli-Palestinian conflict is a real minefield in that it’s a clash between oppressed people of color and an ethnoreligious group that is dominant in Israel but marginalized and brutalized elsewhere (often nowadays on the exact grounds that they share ethnoreligious ties with the people of Israel), so it’s damned hard to toe the line of being socially aware and sensitive to both groups.  I get that.  But I think it is possible to toe that line, and I hope this post helps with that.  (And if a Palestinian makes a similar list of problematic arguments they hear targeted at them, I’d be happy to reblog it, too.)

So, TL;DR version:

Do go ahead and criticize Israel.

Don’t use anti-Semitic stereotypes or tropes.

Don’t use overly expansive language that covers Jews as a whole and not just Israel.

Don’t use lies to boost your claims.

Do engage Jews in conversation on the issues of Israel and of anti-Semitism, rather than simply shutting them down for disagreeing.

Do try to be sensitive to the fact that, fair or not, many people take verbal or violent revenge for the actions of Israelis on Diasporan Jews, and Diasporan Jews are understandably frightened and upset by this.

May there be peace in our days.
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2T1L0p6

alicenginger:

zooophagous:

Video killed the radio star. Internet kills television. Internet creates the podcast. The internet killed video and brought the radio star back to life.

The radio star eats man, women inherit the earth
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2N8zjay

totalspiffage:

tfw you know your complaining is annoying everyone so you gotta decide if it’s worth it to vent a little
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2SU7F6p

cincosechzehn:

like as much as ren amamiya truly is a GOOD BOY DEEP DOWN ™ i love how much of a ride or die bitch he is with regards to the lengths he’ll go to for #justice and #thesquad like

consented to being a human test subject for illegal drug testing in return for performance enhancing drugs

faked interest in a job transporting hard drugs in order to catch a sex trafficker

learned to build bombs

acted as a courier and informant in a yakuza dispute in exchange for weapons

entered a quid-pro-quo agreement with a sex worker in exchange for getting more time for his organized crime group

worked at a bar in a red light district to get intel on criminals

helped a classmate with an unauthorized growing operation on the school roof

worked with a journalist to produce articles to sway public opinion on his group’s activities

convinced a local business owner to allow him and his friends to organize their criminal activities at his cafe

convinced an attorney to break the law and escort an arrested criminal out of custody

he is That Bitch
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2tpue4w

rocktheholygrail:

#character development
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2N75IhR

ulvene:

i-am-corbin-dallas:

dingdongyouarewrong:

confusion-and-cake:

but the real question is how did chidi get so ripped? bench pressing humanities’ collective sins and moral failures???

he went to the gym but couldn’t decide which exercise machine to use so he used all of them

He’s so anxious that he tenses every muscle all the time which caused his incredibly muscular frame

@acanthepeira @humanpersonface
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2Ee15zK

fierce-katzchen:

cutereptiles:

kreuzdrache:

roguetelemetry:

big crab hat energy

THAT’S CAJUN SANTA CLAUS REINGATOR.

Cajun Santa doesn’t mess around. :]
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2DOzB20

daredevilmutual:

wherewhywhat:

daredevilmutual:

dc literally has better villains than marvel because marvel antagonists are always like “i wear ALL BLACK and THREE PIECE SUITS and i kill people because i’m SAD inside” meanwhile everyone in gotham just be off the shits and have an actual aesthetic and presentation  

The villain’s in Gotham are better because no one can out do Bruce Wayne in  “i wear ALL BLACK and THREE PIECE SUITS and i beat up people because i’m SAD inside” so they had to come up with something else.

this is the only response anyone is allowed to put on this post actually 
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2trkx5E

apathetic-revenant:

you know what I want? a post-apocalypse farm game.

you’re a wanderer who happens upon a farm. it’s overgrown and decayed, looks like it’s been abandoned for some time. but as you investigate you meet the old man who lives there. he’s been living on this farm for years but as his health has decayed he’s been increasingly unable to take care of it. he sees you are interested and asks if you would like to take it over. you, of course, say yes.

the old man gives you the tutorials, shows you around, introduces you to the traveling trader who sometimes comes by. not long after you have settled in he passes away, at peace now that he knows his beloved farm is being looked after. 

you do your normal farm game things: clean up the land bit by bit, grow some crops from the last of the old man’s seeds, repair the buildings. you scavenge the land around for old world artifacts that can be broken down for supplies and resources to upgrade your farm. the trader comes by, and as you trade with him more and more, he spreads word and other traders come too, offering greater variety. 

other people come too, slowly, attracted by news of your farm or just passing by. they bring valuable skills, but they have requirements to meet if you want them to stay. slowly the nearby town, long since deserted, fills up again. you help the new residents clean it up, repair the abandoned homes, plant flowers along the cracked old streets. 

there’s no fighting, no violence save maybe a bit of subsistence hunting. just a quiet game about life and community regrowing from the ashes. 
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2GKeOQp

rebelle-capitan:

comingupforblair:

azrael-the-lucifan:

araniaart:

cakeisnotpie:

write-like-an-american:

gokuma:

what-a-catch:

timecanaryy:

hausbolton:

Cate Blanchett though. 

get yourself someone who can do both

@gwen-no-fear

You could do the same with Lee Pace

What I’m getting from this is that Marvel turns elves Goth

I KNEW HOPE LOOKED FAMILIAR.

He wasn’t an elf but there’s also Karl Urban

My favourite thing to come out of that whole Dress thing was this:
(Your picture was not posted)

egberts:

Feb. 16th, 2019 07:00 pm
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2N8JdsK

egberts:
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2Ee5vqk

bogfox:

positive-memes:

Be nice to everybody

*talks kindly to my friend until they become 8ft tall and can help me reach stuff from the top shelf*
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2BGzUf0

awwcutepets:

I’m terribly sorry, madam. I have absolutely no idea where he learned that word.
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2TV6ReU

systlin:

butim-justharry:

hacash:

so in the hobbit when offered a cup of chamomile tea by dori, gandalf instead asks for wine; but when offered a glass of ‘the old winyards’ by bilbo in lotr, gandalf instead asks for tea. from this we can draw one of two conclusions:

a: hanging around thorin oakenshield was enough to turn gandalf to drink

or

b: getting to know a recklessly be-tooked bilbo baggins was enough to make gandalf reconsider his life and realise he needed to be the sensible and sober one

c: gandalf just likes to be contrary and will never accept whatever is specifically offered

It is 7000% option C. 
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2BAATgQ

serenadestrong:

these are a series called Red Letter by Jen Mazza http://jenmazza.com/statement/projects/red-letter
(Your picture was not posted)

Photo

Feb. 16th, 2019 09:25 pm
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2DLh5HV
(Your picture was not posted)
gravityeyelids: (Default)
via http://bit.ly/2tnraWG

calloutfour:

dorknewton:

I’m BI I’m HOMELESS I have RADIATION POISONING and I’m NEW IN TOWN

Fallout New Vegas (2010)
(Your picture was not posted)

Profile

gravityeyelids: (Default)
Rachel

April 2019

S M T W T F S
  1 2 3 4 5 6
7 8 910111213
14151617181920
21222324252627
282930    

Most Popular Tags

Style Credit

Expand Cut Tags

No cut tags
Page generated Jul. 4th, 2025 09:51 pm
Powered by Dreamwidth Studios