Sep. 23rd, 2016

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“alright guys so the original Jumanji was about a cursed board game and these kids who get saddled with it. But we’re rebooting it and we gotta make it MODERN and ADULT. So let’s dress the one girl in the main cast in a Lara Croft cosplay, even though it’ll leave her legs and stomach vulnerable to bug bites, and scratches from plants. ALSO let’s throw a little racism in there and make the dark skinned black man look like the dude the others hired to carry their shit. They’ll eat it up!”
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dirkar:

I know discourse is the word of choice in fandom nowadays but I kind of wish we would have stuck with “fandom wank” because it carries the implication that the anger involved culminated into effectively nothing and that the act was wholeheartedly masturbatory in nature rather than for any greater cause.

I saw this post about an hour after I saw a post that said, essentially, “There should be a word for that thing where [exactly describes ‘squeeing’].”

I feel like the time has come to produce something like this:

citrus 
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Little Corgi Foo Foo
Running through the forest
Sniffing out the field mice
And licking them on the head!

Also read on Tapastic! - http://ift.tt/2cL3C6f
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Lupita Nyong’o talking about the first time she met Beyoncé in 2014 at the Met Gala

😩😩😩😩😩😩😩❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
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rabbits only flop over like that if they feel completely safe btw

OHHH MYYYY GODDDD!!!!!!

I needed this today!
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can we PLEASE stop this trend of “my kink is [insert joke or basic expectation of a relationship]”?? legit, it’s not funny and is actually just kink shaming. cut it out. 

My kink is forgetting I saw this post
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Tbh even though I don’t agree with some (a lot) of the choices they’ve made with the new EP - I’m still super excited to play in a shitty, vermin-infested, leaky-pipes, electricity-zapping apartment.

It’s basically all I’ve wanted since TS2′s Apartment Life and thanks to the Lot traits I can have all the low-to-high income lots I want, without them just looking aesthetically different.

Ya known you’re Generation Y when you fantasize about renting a low income apartment rather than living with your family because even low income apartments are too expensive.
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So this afternoon a teen librarian friend alerted me this tweet from the exceptional Angie Manfredi of Fat Girl Reading:

The print is super duper tiny, so let me blow it up.  This is a review of the book Run by Kody Kepplinger from the prominent library review magazine VOYA* aka Voices of Youth Advocates :

Agnes is legally blind, and leads such a sheltered life that she cannot even take the bus home from school or attend parties. Bo Dickinson has a drug addicted mother, an absent father, and is rumored to be the town slut. Although opposites, they become good friends through their kindness and acceptance of each other. Bo’s cousin Colt is almost a brother to her; they have grown up together and are part of the family “you steer clear of because nothing good can come of getting mixed up with that bunch.” Agnes has a different problem; her parents hover over her and limit her activities so it is impossible for her to be a normal teenager, until she begins sneaking out to go places with Bo. When Bo hatches a plan to leave town to find her father, Agnes decides to go along, thinking she and Bo will live together. They steal a car from Agnes’s family and begin their road trip, along the way visiting Colt, with whom Agnes has a sexual encounter. When Agnes discovers that Bo intends to live with her father, they separate and she gets in touch with her parents, leaving Bo to a disappointing meeting with her father, and an eventual return to the foster care system. The story contains many references to Bo being bisexual and an abundance of bad language, so it is recommended for mature junior and senior high readers.–Rachel Axelrod. 304p. VOICE OF YOUTH ADVOCATES, c2016.

I helpfully put in bold the part that gave me rage hives :D

This reviewer (Rachel Axelrod) and VOYA are saying the very existence of bisexual people is on par with swearing.  That the very existence of bisexuality can only be shown to junior and senior high schoolers. 

And this is where I need to disagree with Angie a little here because that isn’t a microagression.  That is full-on biphobia folks.  

And its a particular kind of biphobia that tags bisexual girls and women in a particularly pernicious way.  Mature is a coded word here.  Its hypersexualization – where being bisexual and being out and using the word ‘bisexual’ for bi women is considered on par with sex acts. And like I said on twitter this afternoon, you can draw a straight fucking line from this review to bisexual women being constantly sexually harassed and facing astronomically high rates of sexual violence and domestic abuse.  Bisexual women and girls are not seen as peoples, we are seen as machines that dispense sex.  I would expect a publication like VOYA to challenge that narrative, not reinforce it.  

Also, does VOYA think that bisexual teens under grade 11 just don’t exist?  Because TRUST ME they do.   And they deserve to read books that reflect their inner worlds just as much as straight teens.  I have NEVER seen a book review of any type claim that only juniors and seniors can know about the existence of straight people.  

How many people at VOYA put their eyes on this review and NO ONE noticed that?

I spend a fair amount of my time on this blog complaining, critiquing, and analyzing books that refuse to use the word bisexual to describe their characters.  And while I haven’t read Run (though I put it on hold at my library today), all accounts are that the bisexual character Bo actually uses the word bisexual several times.  But instead of celebrating that as an important YA development, VOYA seems to think it needs a goddamn content warning.  

Oh but just wait.  

It gets better.  

It gets so much better.  

You might be thinking that perhaps this book just had a lot of steamy bisexual sex scenes and this is just a case of poor wording.

NOPE

In this reviewers mind, the actual HAVING of heterosexual sex doesn’t make this book in appropriate for younger readers, but the very EXISTENCE of a bisexual character would.  You don’t need to warn against actual sex but you choose to slap a ‘here be monsters’ on the map if there are bisexuals?

There is nothing to that but base and blatant biphobia.  

Librarians and booksellers use magazines like VOYA because they can’t read every book.  Now we have VOYA telling entire swaths of professionals that this book (and by extension bisexual people) are somehow inherently inappropriate.  VOYA has a reputation among librarians as being progressive, less enmeshed with book publishers, and more focused on intellectual freedom than other review sources (PW, Kirkus, LJ, SLJ).  Their name is actually Voices of Youth Advocates.  We trust their reviews to advocate for youth.  

Well I’m sorry VOYA but you need to explain to me how promoting this kind of biphobia makes you a ‘youth advocate’.  Or how it helps you uphold the mission statement of your publication – which reads: “Young adults have rights to free and equal access to information in print, nonprint, and electronic resources, without infringement of their intellectual freedom due to age or other restrictions.”   How exactly does advocating an age restriction on a book solely because of the sexual orientation of a protagonist advance that right to free and equal access to information?

This also frustrates me to no end because we’ve all heard that mantra about how ‘diverse books don’t sell’.  WELL NO SHIT THEY DON’T SELL WHEN YOU REVIEW THEM LIKE THIS!  This is a textbook lesson in how to use base-level bigotry to bomb book sales.  I swear to god, the next person who tells me that books with bisexual characters who actually use the word bisexual ‘just don’t sell’ is gonna get nothing but a giant squid of anger.    

Right now, I’m calling on VOYA magazine and it’s Editor

RoseMary Honnold

to apologize to author Kody Keplinger and to the entire bisexual community.  This review is offensive and it needs to be retracted.  I’d also say that Rachel Axelrod needs some LGBTQ cultural competency training (with a particular emphasis on the B in there).  

This is #BiWeek, the week where bisexual community celebrates our history, culture, and art.  It would be a great time for VOYA to remove their foot from their mouth and apologize for this biphobic trainwreck.  

- Sarah 

*I know you’re really not supposed to post content such as entire reviews up on the internet from trade publications but if VOYA doesn’t like it, then fuck it, they can C&D us.

Holy shit it just got worse.  

Bisexual SFF author Tristina Wright sent this email to someone at VOYA (gonna guess the editor RoseMary Honnold but to be clear that is just my base speculation)

And this was VOYA’s utterly reprehensible response:

I am stunned.  I am horrified.

This isn’t about destroying our enemies during BiWeek.  It’s about VOYA making a serious mistake that isn’t aligned with their purported values or what’s best for teens.  

More on this as it develops.  

UPDATES:   

First, Tristina has confirmed that the email does come from Editor In Chief RoseMary Honnold.  

Second, Bisexual Book Award winning bisexual author Hannah Moskowitz has also written a letter of condemnation 

UPDATES

Third, literary agent Barry Goldblatt (who is a BIG DEAL in YA lit world for those who don’t know) is pulling his ads from VOYA:

Fourth, VOYA has published Tristina’s email as a letter to the editor on their site, as though they are proud of it.  

Hot damn.
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A. If you could get away with one murder in your lifetime without any legal, social, or emotional repercussions, would you kill someone?
B. What is your first thought when you receive a message on Tumblr, are you excited for the idea of someone from potentially the other side of the world wanting to talk to you or fearful that someone will criticize you?
C. Have you ever looked down on someone because you thought your religious views were superior?
D. Would you rather know everything the universe has to offer but in exchange lose all emotions or remain the way you are now?
E. If you could live and be healthy without sleeping or eating/drinking, which would you cut out of your life?
F. If you could take on the exact body and form of anyone else on Earth, who would it be?
G. Would you rather burn or freeze to death?
H. If it meant it would solve all world hunger, war, disease and bigotry, would you spend the rest of eternity in Hell?
I. Was the first crush in your life something you had or something someone had on you?
J. Could you live without having sex ever (again) in exchange for eternal youth?
K. Have you ever watched a full length pornographic movie?
L. The Beatles or The Rolling Stones?
M. If you could have the ability to manipulate matter or energy, which would you choose?
N. What was the worst nightmare you ever had?
O. Would you rather spend one year with your one true love just to never see them again or the rest of your life with second best?
P. All the sequels/remakes/adaptations/rip-offs in movies nowadays, good or bad?
Q. Would you rather be dirt poor and emotionally fulfilled in life or be rich beyond imagination and emotionally dissatisfied for life?
R. Do you have any (secret) feelings of bigotry to any group of people?
S. Would you rather be the only person in the world that can read minds or have everyone else in the world be able to read minds except for your own?
T. If everyone in the world would automatically only know one language, which language would you choose?
U. If you were old enough and not in a situation where it would be inappropriate, would you sleep with one of your (past) school teachers/professors?
V. A world without religion, good, bad, neutral?
W. The men's rights movement, legitimate cause or laughable, and why?
X. You can eliminate one of your five senses to substantially strengthen the others, which one and would you do it?
Y. Do looks mean anything to you? Don't lie, could you fall in love with someone you thought was ugly?
Z. Can you understand the mindset and logic used by the opposite spiritual opinion? An atheist understanding the belief in a higher power and vice versa.
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“we dont hold men to the same beauty standards as women so we should start doing that” no…. no….. wrong direction….. turn around….. 
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writing-prompt-s:

You can bring dead people to live again, but for every person you bring back, you have to sacrifice one body part

Me: *plucks out another hair*

Sadistic Genie: Okay I know that technically counts but I really feel you’re not getting into the spirit of-

Me: *ceremonially sacrifices hair, very seriously*

Sadistic Genie: Like one time, just once, couldn’t it be a toe or a finger or something?

Me: Oh like how you so graciously go by what people ‘mean’ and not exactly how they’ve phrased things?

Sadistic Genie: …

Me: …

Sadistic Genie: …sometimes I-

Me: Just resurrect them already.
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A video posted by Mango Brown Talking Kitty Cat (@justmangobrown) on Apr 15, 2016 at 8:21am PDT

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When you’re sleepy and someone won’t stop talking to you…
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simple and clean is an lgbtq anthem now
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#the toilet goblin

reblog Toilet Goblin for good toilet luck

@nanodarkk2
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Shit is getting weird

Cthulhu might be an eldritch horror from beyond the dawn of time but he’s not a RACIST

He plans to devour all humanity not pick and choose based on where people are from he is nothing like Donald Trump
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Just kinda wanna be braless and eat fruit in peace tbh

So did Eve and look where that got her

< Eats an apple slowly and deliberately in front of god

Come at me bro
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Me at work: wow I can’t wait to go home and take a shower and make some food and wash my clothes and learn advanced biology and apply for NASA and make a breakthrough in modern physics
Me: *Gets home and falls asleep on the door handle*
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you can lead a straight person to water but you can’t make them stop asking who is the man in your lesbian relationship. 

You can if you strand them in the water on a life raft
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Now that is some vintage sports goth

i thought the nike logo was a flying saucer and thats what out there. Run.
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For the Guardian.

Useful info for the skeleton war.
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*has no desire to go through anyones phone*
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“Dream a little Dream of me..”

Genderbent Morpheus from Neil Gaiman’s Sandman.  I was so happy I was finally able to pull off this cosplay at DragonCon this year! At least a year of planning, 15 yards of tulle, and a whole lot of love went into this cosplay.  This series was one of the first comics I ever read, and it remains one of my favorites.

Costume designed and made by me.  Photos by my dad, edited by me.
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Sand Cat (Anne-Marie Kalus)
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Why am i sobbing

I love.. the scots……..
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I’ve been having bad days and drawing this helped me remember things.

I hope it helps you, too.

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