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sourcedumal:
sapphicscience:
i’ve been thinking about all those posts about “we need female heroes who do girly things”/”why is the female hero always such a tomboy” and then the response posts that are like “uhhh actually we don’t really have any really masculine female heroes either” so i was trying to figure it out—what do we have, exactly?
and really what we get is women who eschew “girly” things while still managing to look like society’s ideal woman. they would never touch eyeliner (they’re too busy with Important Things), but their eyeliner is immaculate. they have a huge, varied wardrobe, but wouldn’t be caught dead actually shopping for clothes. and it reminds me of the expectation that women must be effortlessly beautiful. don’t wear makeup or you’ll seem self-absorbed—but god forbid you look like you’re not wearing makeup. it’s interesting to me, that the impossibilities imposed on female characters are the same ones imposed on real women.
We got female heroes written by men who don’t see women as actual people and that’s why the disconnect is there.
That’s why so many dudes be like “I want a girl who is all natural” and shit while fawning over women who clearly got a bb cream and bronzer contour with a nude smokey eye.
They love the hourglass figure with skimpy clothes but stand outside the store and do not actually help their women shop for clothing cus “that’s girly bullshit”
And the “masculine” female heroes usually end up being “one of the guys” and not really connecting with other women and its like, really???
sourcedumal:
sapphicscience:
i’ve been thinking about all those posts about “we need female heroes who do girly things”/”why is the female hero always such a tomboy” and then the response posts that are like “uhhh actually we don’t really have any really masculine female heroes either” so i was trying to figure it out—what do we have, exactly?
and really what we get is women who eschew “girly” things while still managing to look like society’s ideal woman. they would never touch eyeliner (they’re too busy with Important Things), but their eyeliner is immaculate. they have a huge, varied wardrobe, but wouldn’t be caught dead actually shopping for clothes. and it reminds me of the expectation that women must be effortlessly beautiful. don’t wear makeup or you’ll seem self-absorbed—but god forbid you look like you’re not wearing makeup. it’s interesting to me, that the impossibilities imposed on female characters are the same ones imposed on real women.
We got female heroes written by men who don’t see women as actual people and that’s why the disconnect is there.
That’s why so many dudes be like “I want a girl who is all natural” and shit while fawning over women who clearly got a bb cream and bronzer contour with a nude smokey eye.
They love the hourglass figure with skimpy clothes but stand outside the store and do not actually help their women shop for clothing cus “that’s girly bullshit”
And the “masculine” female heroes usually end up being “one of the guys” and not really connecting with other women and its like, really???
