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rednegsnarts:
real question who tf has ever seen a cishet ace person bc i haven’t. the only people you guys talk about that i know of are aro ace people, and liking no one definitely doesn’t equal het, so…
i think there’s only one person on here that identified as heteromantic asexual, but i think they were nonbinary?? i can hardly remember.
and further more i can understand being wary of a heteromantic cis person but why would aro ace people bother you?? and why do you guys talk nonstop about hating aces and aros, but then say it’s because some of them are straight??
most actual cishet people don’t care about the people in this community enough to want to “force themselves into it”.
most of them are trans/enby or otherwise already indisputably lgbtq. and the ones who aren’t, and some who are, also usually don’t like any gender at all.
in short, idc about het aces/aros bc there aren’t any who care enough to use the term. but don’t shit all over aro aces and otherwise don’t shit on lgbtq aces/aros, whatever that means to you.
sorry if im hijacking your post but exclusionists absolutely assume that kinda stuff. i joind a discord server that was exclusionist but I didnt know that at the time and i thought it was just cool and nice people (they werent) but yeah anyway yknow how discord servers have ‘roles’ and sometimes its for ur identity well i didnt like, see my gender up there so i left it blank and i put asexual and ‘they/them’ so those were the only 2 roles i had
and then some fuck is like “ARE YOU CIS ??? ARE YOU A CISHET ACE????” like damn calm down how many cis people you know who use they them pronouns… but this just goes to show these cowards will assume all aces are cishet before anything else.
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discoursegrips:
rednegsnarts:
real question who tf has ever seen a cishet ace person bc i haven’t. the only people you guys talk about that i know of are aro ace people, and liking no one definitely doesn’t equal het, so…
i think there’s only one person on here that identified as heteromantic asexual, but i think they were nonbinary?? i can hardly remember.
and further more i can understand being wary of a heteromantic cis person but why would aro ace people bother you?? and why do you guys talk nonstop about hating aces and aros, but then say it’s because some of them are straight??
most actual cishet people don’t care about the people in this community enough to want to “force themselves into it”.
most of them are trans/enby or otherwise already indisputably lgbtq. and the ones who aren’t, and some who are, also usually don’t like any gender at all.
in short, idc about het aces/aros bc there aren’t any who care enough to use the term. but don’t shit all over aro aces and otherwise don’t shit on lgbtq aces/aros, whatever that means to you.
sorry if im hijacking your post but exclusionists absolutely assume that kinda stuff. i joind a discord server that was exclusionist but I didnt know that at the time and i thought it was just cool and nice people (they werent) but yeah anyway yknow how discord servers have ‘roles’ and sometimes its for ur identity well i didnt like, see my gender up there so i left it blank and i put asexual and ‘they/them’ so those were the only 2 roles i had
and then some fuck is like “ARE YOU CIS ??? ARE YOU A CISHET ACE????” like damn calm down how many cis people you know who use they them pronouns… but this just goes to show these cowards will assume all aces are cishet before anything else.
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